A good traveler has no fixed plans, and is not intent on arriving.

“A good traveler has no fixed plans, and is not intent on arriving.” Lao Tzu – Goal-Setting

A good traveler has no fixed plans, and is not intent on arriving.

Is goal-setting necessary for success?

Setting goals is a quality possessed by individuals who are very successful. Some children excel in that particular skill. They plan their life events with specific results in sight. Some children prefer to simply follow along without setting goals, as the idea of goal-setting makes them feel anxious, unsatisfied, and demotivated. As the importance of setting goals is not fully understood, students need to determine on their own how they wish to incorporate it into their daily routines. This will continue to be a challenge for the rest of your life.

Join Steve and Dan Fouts for an unforgettable conversation about goal-setting using the Teach Different 3-Step Method.

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Steve Fouts: 0:03

Hello everyone, it's Steve and Dan Fouts. We are approaching teaching in a unique way by incorporating a quote from the Chinese philosopher Lao Tzu regarding setting goals. An excellent traveler does not have specific itineraries and is not focused on reaching a destination. This quote is great for encouraging students to pause and consider why we are discussing travel and the qualities of a good traveler. It is essential to review these words for everyone to understand their significance. I appreciate how this quote flips the concept of goal-setting on its head. The discussion is centered around the essence of traveling and the qualities of a good traveler, yet I believe it reflects on the recipe for living a fulfilling life. What is the ideal way of living your life? What are the optimal choices that you should make in order to reach your goals and reach a specific destination? I enjoy this alternative approach to setting goals. Dan, what is your opinion on what the claim might be? How would you phrase it in your own words?

Dan Fouts: 1:30 – Claim

Yes, as you mentioned, he is acting a bit counterintuitively. He seems to be implying that individuals should embrace spontaneity and focus on the process rather than the end goal. A life traveler is not someone who wakes up each day planning their goals for that day or the upcoming year. By not doing so, you are not fully living the experience, which is meant to be enjoyable regardless of whether you ultimately reach your destination. I share your view that this contradicts the common advice given to children that setting goals is vital.

Steve Fouts: 2:26

They are informed that they should establish goals for themselves, such as achieving a certain grade, behaving well in class, fostering a positive attitude, pursuing higher education, or working towards career objectives. We consistently discuss this with them. I believe that with certain students, it would be beneficial to understand the motivations behind their goals when inquiring about them. They will likely share many suggested goals, but they may not fully believe in them. This quotation will inspire them to elevate their awareness. That is why I enjoy using it as a stimulus for storytelling. What response do we have if we wish to return and take on the role of the teacher or parent to these students? What is the opposing argument?

Dan Fouts: 3:29 – Counterclaim

Set objectives that are unchangeable. Having clear goals is a crucial element in life. As a parent, if your high school child is asked about their goals, you don't want them to respond with not having any and just going with the flow. That instills terror in the hearts of parents. They lack a specific destination in mind. It is crucial to have a goal. It gives a sense of security to your life. It's vital to steady you.

Steve Fouts: 4:14

Certainly. Some students will set specific objectives. They will be the individuals with type A personalities, the students who always seek clarity on expectations in order to accomplish their goals. They dislike ambiguity and lack of clarity. They may not even enjoy the journey. They link it to effort and perseverance. However, the trip is worthwhile as it helps them reach their intended destination. If you are unsure of your destination, you are simply aimlessly struggling. Many students are in that state right now. They are focusing on their strengths and passions without letting themselves be derailed by overthinking their objectives. It is a valid rebuttal.

Dan Fouts: 5:18

I believe that encouraging children to discuss their goals and write down two specific goals will provide insight for teachers into the children's thoughts and progress. Some children will consider the future extensively, while others will focus on the present moment. This is a prompt you can give them to kickstart the conversation.

Steve Fouts: 5:46 – Essential Question

Definitely. The discussion will touch on their views on success and the definition of a good traveler or a person who leads a fulfilling life. I believe the key inquiry is whether setting goals is necessary for achieving success. I believe this will be a great discussion, as long as it remains respectful. Students have the ability to debate the importance of setting goals and whether it is beneficial. They could argue that life involves more than simply establishing random goals and striving to achieve them. You must value the moments.

Dan Fouts: 6:35

Indeed, the importance lies in the journey itself. We are creating these discussions for teachers to engage with students, but I believe that adults could benefit from them as well.

Steve Fouts: 6:55

Definitely. We trust that you found Lao Tzu enjoyable. This quote is really beneficial for setting goals. Ensure you explore our Conversation Library containing various conversations similar to this one, each featuring a distinct quote, a sample argument, counterargument, and a key question to kickstart your discussion.

We will see you soon. Take care everybody.

Dan Fouts: 7:44

Alright, goodbye.